My Ragdoll Cat Adventures Part Two

Blog Post 91 3rd March 2023 First Date

Big changes in our lives. My new boyfriend has appeared, and Jack is very jealous! On our first date, just before we left, we said goodbye to the boys, and Jack just turned his back on us as if to say ‘I am not happy about this.’ He seems to be slowly coming around to the idea of having this other person, but he still glares at him sometimes from the cat tree.

Jack managed to knock over the little cat scratching post and the lamp this morning (they did last week as well). They are a bit top-heavy when they jump. I am sure it was accidental, though, and not a stroppy teenage tantrum about mummy spending time away from him with the other male in her life. 

After a few days of hanging out with my new boyfriend, the boys are getting used to it. Jack is a bit standoffish but not as grumpy as he was. Charlie is loving it as there are more cuddles for him. He was sleeping on our laps the other day like a little fluffy baby. Tom and Leo have been doing lots of sniffing of the boyfriend but seem to have accepted him being in the house. I think smell plays a huge part in it as I am sure that once they have got used the new smells there is no problem. Unless we end up spending more time away from them out on dates, then they might start wrecking the place in a tantrum!